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Monday, December 17, 2007

liberal amount of patience

Such a good article. Good for me at least. I just want to share it with you.

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In today’s society, most areas of sexuality and human reproduction are openly discussed. And yet, in spite of the fact that one in six couples encounters difficulties in having a baby, the subject of infertility remains largely taboo. So why is this so?

The inability to conceive a child touches our deepest self. Women who are unable to conceive may feel inferior, guilty and have problems with their self-image. Men often feel that their virility and manhood is placed in doubt.

It is clear that, under such circumstances, most infertile couples prefer to keep silent. Nevertheless, communicating openly with friends and family can create a stronger sense of support in dealing with the psychological and emotional components of infertility.

Many couples who have experienced infertility treatment describe it as an “emotional roller coaster.” With each monthly cycle and course of treatment, hopes rise of finally getting pregnant. The two-week wait after the fertilized egg has been transferred to the womb can be extremely difficult. And if the results are negative, the emotional effects can be very difficult to handle.

Talking openly about your feelings is vital to coping with the emotions associated with infertility treatment, especially with your partner. If ever love and mutual understanding are called upon, it is in moments such as these.

It can also be helpful to talk to other couples who have gone through similar experiences and understand what you are feeling. You should ask your infertility specialist for the address of a patient group near you.

Finally, you can soften the emotional impact of infertility treatment by not expecting instant success. Most couples who undergo treatment do eventually have the baby they want so badly. But remember, the chances of becoming pregnant during any single course of treatment are usually 25-30%.

So, one of the essentials you should pack for your journey is a liberal amount of patience.

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